The Truth About Attraction
April 7, 2008
Scientists have always looked high upon themselves as invincible masters, as they continue to take pride in knowing just about everything. However, if there’s one equation even Einstein could not dare solve, it is the undecided ambiguity of love that never ceases to lure more victims either for sweet romance or dreadful heartaches. For the most part, this mystery remains unresolved up to until this very moment. But instead of concluding fate with hazy generalizations and dumbfounded myths, it would be wise to know how attraction may churn up the right twist for any budding affair.
Although vanity may always affect how men or women may gauge the opposite sex, attraction need not be rationalized through a list of qualifications. In most cases, it can simply be equated through physical chemistry. Intense chemistry then leads to sexual tension, which may easily build up between men and women. But of course, you cannot always predict how the opposite sex may respond. If he or she will also take interest in you or not, confidence may always set the difference.
Pick-up lines for men are standard ways to initiate conversations with women. But no matter how funny or witty these lines may be, it’s how they are delivered that counts the most, while men who approach women with unexplained sureness about themselves may also walk away with dating success. Apart from good looks and stylish suits, it is their overpowering confidence that catches the eye and interest of their prospects.
It has always been an open secret and by now, the dating crowd may all be very much aware how the power of C or confidence may affect the pursuit for love. However, what they don’t fully realize is how nuances may either confirm or rebuff their claim for confidence, when many are usually misled into thinking that being cool is all about following the trends. Though it could always be an advantage or a plus, what spells out the real difference is how body language may subliminally communicate with the preferred partner.
When people talk too much or even too fast, it may easily confirm insecurity. The same with buying girls too many cocktail glasses or asking them lots of questions, it only shows what type of man may pathetically try too hard to lure girls by his side. Not only that, when hands are held too tight with feet too close and shoulders down, this simple gesture may send bleeping alarm of shyness, anxiety, and self-doubt. In which case, it often leads to heartbreaking rejection.
Meanwhile, attraction may also come from innate sexual appeal. How you flaunt your features and cover up for your weaknesses is another way to earn the approval of the opposite sex. For girls endowed with lovely figures and charming looks, the usual challenge is how they’ll establish connection with their men. Having common grounds both intellectually or emotionally is another provocative part of stimulating attraction — in knowing that not all men only seek for one night stands, but also for long term relationships.
Despite attempts by so-called experts, attraction cannot be fully explained or at least summarized into one conclusion. But if there’s one undeniable truth about attraction that is yet to be explored, it is that the mind acts up in a way that controls how one behaves or may even view the opposite sex. Although most people would claim that desire for others is uncontrollable, it is actually the mind that sets off the standards. Barely do people realize that their choices are affected by their instinctive perceptions. Whether or not they’re aware of it, still, it is the mind or the subconscious that controls how the body may react or respond in different encounters.
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